relationships

NosyRosy Hot Topic: There is no way you can be in a relationship without sex in our generation

NosyRosy Hot Topic: There is no way you can be in a relationship without sex in our generation

There is no way you can be in a relationship without sex in our generation!- Anonymous My friend, Bisi recently gave up sex. To her it clouded her judgment in relationships. It was always difficult for her to determine if the guy was in it for her, or simply in it, for ‘it’. So for the last 2 years, she has been celibate. Coincidentally (or maybe not so coincidentally) she hasn’t been in a relationship for the last 2 years. Why? Because any guy she mentions this to, suddenly stops calling her. At first, she thought it was because she … read more

6 Signs You Need Couples Counseling

6 Signs You Need Couples Counseling

source mademan If the mere thought of your girlfriend makes you want to vomit, you could take it as a sign you need couples counseling—or you can be honest with yourself and admit the relationship is probably over. When you’re in a relationship that is salvageable, however, not every little tiff means you need run over to the nearest counselor. The six signs you need couples counseling are not hard to read, although they may be difficult to mend without some help. You’re unrealistic. If she’s still waiting for her toad to turn into a prince and you’re still waiting … read more

Warning! 7 Lies All Women Tell Men

Warning! 7 Lies All Women Tell Men

Let me start by being completely, um, honest. Every once in a while, we ladies have been known to play a little fast and loose with the truth around you guys. Believe me, we do it with the purest of intentions (really!). And rather than try to change us, your best bet—for keeping your woman happy and your sanity intact—is to simply recognize what’s going on and be smooth about it. With that in mind, here are seven lies we commonly tell men, and how to handle them. Just trust me on this stuff, OK? 1. “Give me your completely honest opinion…” Now would be a good time … read more

4 Rules You Should Follow When Fighting With A Girlfriend

4 Rules You Should Follow When Fighting With A Girlfriend

Arguments in relationships are practically unavoidable, but there are rules you should following when you’re fighting with your girlfriend. She might be nagging you because you left your wet towel on the bathroom floor for the hundredth time, but blowing up at her is not going to resolve the argument. In fact, it’s probably going to make things worse, damning you to the terrible dimension known as the “No Sex Zone.” No guy wants to be there, so you need to understand the differences in the way men and women deal with disagreements and learn the four rules you should … read more

What A Man Won’t Tell You Immediately

What A Man Won’t Tell You Immediately

Men and women are both enigmatic in their own ways, but what I have found is that men are, across the board, more private people than women are. Men don’t wear their emotions on their sleeves as much as women do.   Why? Because they know that when a woman senses a man showing his soft side, she reads that as him wanting to become closer. So, to avoid leading anyone one, they wait until they are certain they like a woman to start sharing these things. Lord knows how long that takes…   His heartbreaks Sure, he walked up … read more

The Graduation: From Girlfriend to Baby Mama…Still No Ring

The Graduation: From Girlfriend to Baby Mama…Still No Ring

Proclaiming to be a “smart,” “different from all the other chicks,” “never want to be a typical negative statistic,” “I will never trap a man,” “I will never settle,” “I want the best future,” “I deserve a great family,” shouting woman who becomes head over heels in love with a “God-fearing” man, “man of my dreams,” family man, etc, ironically is unwed; and after years of being in a relationship.  However, the worse part in addition to being unwed while living with their non husband is giving their uncommitted boyfriends something more valuable than sex, but a child.  The so … read more

What Makes the Perfect Date?

What Makes the Perfect Date?

I really can’t believe I am here! While half of the world and their mother are either relaxing at home or enjoying some sort of Christmas/New Year holiday bliss, I am stuck at the office trying to design projects for the New Year! The word “sucks” readily springs to mind every 5 minutes! But alas! This is what I am paid to do, so I shall be a big girl and not complain. Its 2 days left to the end of the year and my brain is officially on rest mode. So in between signing documents and the usual work … read more